Monday, November 19, 2012

Selecting a Country

A lot of people have asked us why we chose South Korea and how we selected a country.  I thought with this being National Adoption Awareness month, I would take some time to inform you about the different country requirements a family must meet in order to adopt internationally.  Each country requires different things such as: family income, travel requirements, marriage history/status, weight, age, and criminal history.  When looking to adopt in another country, you have to carefully consider each of these requirements and make sure you are able to meet them.   Below is a list of just some of the country's different requirements:

 South Korea Requirements:

Age                                                                   25-42
Length of Marriage                                           3 Years           
Max # Children in Family                                  4                    
Gender Choice                                                 Cannot Choose Gender     
Age of Child at Arrival in US                             18-24 mo                   
Travel Requirements                                        1 Trip    
Weight                                                               No more than 30% overweight      
Length of Trip/Trips                                           4-7 Days                     
Wait time for Referral                                        4-6 mo 
Wait time to travel to Korea                              11-16 mo                       
Total Adoption Process Time                            20-28 mo                                 


 China Requirements:
(Special Needs List)

Age                                                                   30-50
Length of Marriage                                           2 Years
Max # Children in Family                                  4
Gender Choice                                                 May Choose Gender

Age of Child at Arrival in US                             All
Income                                                              $10,000 for each family member
Weight                                                               BMI no greater  than 40
Travel Requirements                                        1 Trip
Length of Trip/Trips                                          14-16 Days
Wait time for Referral                                        4-6 mo
Wait time to travel to China                               4-6 mo                       
Total Adoption Process Time                           11-24 mo   


 Haiti Requirements:

Age                                                                    35-50
Length of Marriage                                            10 Years           
Max # Children in Family                                   5                    
Gender Choice                                                  May Choose Gender         
Age of Child at Arrival in US                              24-36 mo                   
Travel Requirements                                          2 Trips         
Length of Trip/Trips                                            Both 3-4 Days                     
Wait time for Referral                                         6-12 mo                        
Total Adoption Process Time                             24-36 mo   


 Russia Requirements:

Age                                                                    25-50
Length of Marriage                                           2 Years           
Max # Children in Family                                  5                    
Gender Choice                                                 May Choose Gender          
Age of Child at Arrival in US                            14 mo- 15 yrs                  
Travel Requirements                                        3 Trips         
Length of Trip/Trips                                          1st: 5-7 days, 2nd: 3-5 days,
                                                                           3rd: 10 days                     
Wait time for Referral                                       Boys 3-9 mo,
                                                                            Girls 16+mo                        
Total Adoption Process Time                            15-34 mo   

Of course, these are just a few international requirements and there are many more.  It has also been known for countries to make exceptions in certain cases.  Choosing a country is a big decision and one that we prayed about for 3 years.  I think the first step is to always pray about which country God would have you adopt from (either US or overseas) and then to start researching all of the requirements to see where your heart is lead.  :)  One thing our family had to really look into was the number of trips required.  For example, in Columbia you are required to make one trip of approximately 4 weeks long.  This was not something we felt we could do at this time because we both work outside the home and have our son to consider.  I hope this helps answer some questions on how to choose a country.  Please reply with any questions you might have.  Have a blessed and Happy Thanksgiving!
 

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